June 29 2008
Lost & Found Boy
Luke 15:11-24
Lost sheep, coin to a boy increase in the value of the lost. Every parents nightmare might well be their child being lost in running away, or by abduction.
Poly Ellis (member) shared with me a couple weeks ago [lost coin] about a co-worker of hers from a few years ago.
A nurse in the nursing Home where I was on staff shared with me one day that her 12 year old daughter had disappeared a couple of years prior to our conversation. This seemed to me like every parents worst nightmare…..imagine living with that day after day, not knowing what, or where, and imagining every horrible thing. She said it just consumed her life, every day she thought about it all the time, and her goal in life was to find her daughter, who was lost. Her husband and some other friends thought she should just “let it go”, she said, and “get on with her life”, but she just couldn’t let her daughter go. [Poly Ellis email]
Luke 15:11-24 Jesus continued: “There was a man who had two sons … (read)
What does this story say to us? Charles Spurgeon says of this parable … “It is so full of sacred meaning that it always has some fresh lesson for us.”
From the lost sheep, coin and now a son … this I know … it continues to promote the lavishing love of God toward the lost sinner … in means and manners that catch me off guard.
God loves sinners. It is Spurgeon that titles the story on that level … “Prodigal Love for the Prodigal Son.” Prodigal meaning … giving or given in abundance; lavish or profuse, even to the point of being wasteful.
The Pharisees [really religious folk] would see the action of the son and the father being wasteful in abundance … the son his inheritance and the father his love. Can we ever love too much? No, for when we love, truly love as God our Father loves, we are perhaps, never more like Him.
So this we know … the Father loves the son … but the son does not love the Father.
The Lost Condition of the Son
We’re not told why the son wants to leave, but we are told about the condition of the boy … lost.
· Lost his Senses …
o Culture of “honor & shame” [Honor your father & mother - Deut 5:16]
o Shameless request & shameless rebellion
The boy asked for his portion of the estate … aka “inheritance.” Interesting words Jesus uses … “estate” (useios) … means the goods or the property. Whereas the common NT word used for inheritance (kleronomia) means everything that comes with the good or property … management of estate … leadership … responsibility to provide for the family and family name. [Notes gleaned from John MacArthur]
The shame was the boy wanted the goods but not the responsibility or accountability. The boy wants to get out of his family, but he also wants all he can get out of his family before leaving.
· Lost his Love …
o Rejected Love … of his Father … no gratitude
o Lacked Love … for his Father … total disrespect
2 Timothy 3:1-4 But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. 2 People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, 4 treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God—
At this point in the story the Pharisees would have thought of it as utterly despicable on the part of the boy, as well as the Father who allowed it. They would have expected the father to rebuke him, shame him, punish him, dismiss him (from the family), and even perhaps hold a funeral.
Jesus goes on to tell of the …
· Lost his Direction …
o Left the leadership of his father … set off for a distant country … get away as far as he could.
o Left to live loosely on his own … squandered wealth in wild living … reckless and wasteful living
Sin … take note … leads one in the wrong direction and sin never works out the way it looks like it will … after he had spent everything. (v.14)
o Left to himself he “found” himself in wanted … but he is not ready to return. We can never return in our own strength.
o Left to his own resources and thinking he tries to get a job (still trying to make it on his own) … and ends up feeding the pigs.
Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; 6 in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
The Found Condition of the Son
· Found his Senses … When he came to his senses … he began to think & talk to himself about his father.
“Now at this point, the father reenters the story … the father reenters in the mind of the son … begin to talk about the father, and we go from a shameless request and a shameless rebellion to a shameful repentance.” – John MacArthur
Finding his senses he begins to see his father as loving, good, kind and generous.
· Found his Direction … return & repent home
o I will set out and go back to my father …
o I have sinned against heaven and against you …
Don’t miss this! All of heaven was up and ready to rejoice! Do you remember the day all of heaven rejoiced over you in repenting and receiving Christ?
In the first two stories “repentance” was mentioned [vs. 7,10], but not defined. Here it is defined.
This is where repentance begins … accurate assessment of your own condition … destitute, helpless, no resources and impending death. [Notes gleaned from John MacArthur]
So he got up and went to his father. (Lk 15:20) He wants to return. He wants to be restored. He wants & needs his father.
The Found Condition of the Father
What would he find at home? The son knew his culture. He knew chances were the father would not come out to receive him; after all he had shamed his father. And when he finally did come out, it would be a cool reception of indifference. Restitution would have to be made … that is why the boy said to himself he would work as a hired servant. There would be no room for negotiation, just restitution … pay back!
But what he finds is not what he [or the Pharisees] expected.
· Found Reception …
o The father “saw” … saw who it was … where he came from … dirty clothes as well as dirty body … his repentant look … what he had been, what he was and what he would be. The father saw with compassion, not concern. [See Matthew 9:36 Jesus moved with compassion]
“God has a way of seeing men and women that you and I cannot understand. He sees right through us at a glance, as if we were made of glass; He sees all our past, present and future.” – Spurgeon
o The father “ran” … the culture says noblemen don’t run … but God does! The father couldn’t get there fast enough!
o The father “kissed” [much] … manifested the love of the father for the son.
Genesis 45:14-15 Then he threw his arms around his brother Benjamin and wept, and Benjamin embraced him, weeping. 15 And he kissed all his brothers and wept over them. Afterward his brothers talked with him.
The son begins his planned speech of repentance … I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ (v21) But it is short lived in duration … as the father forgives.
“The forgiveness of God, the Father, stands ready.”
· Found Restoration … the robe, ring, shoes speak to the full restoration of the son’s rightful place.
1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.
· Found Rejoicing … extravagant … fatted calf
Luke 15:23b-24 Let’s have a feast and celebrate. 24 For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate.
The father sees, runs, restores, and rejoices … this is the whole point of the story! Grace triumphs over sin!
And you know what? I think the boy who lost himself, found what he was really looking for all along … a real relationship with his father.
That’s what we all need, and that is what we all need to be looking for.
There is only two means of being found …
· Found in Sin …
· Found in Christ …
Philippians 3:8-9 I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them rubbish, that I may gain Christ 9 and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ–the righteousness that comes from God and is by faith.
Let me remind you …
1. “The forgiveness of God, the Father, stands ready.”
2. “Grace triumphs over sin!”
Hurry and come home and let the celebration begin!
Amen!
Bob AuBuchon, Pastor FBC Camdenton, Missouri
Credit for outlines, thoughts, and quotes are given from their sources.
New International Version is used unless otherwise stated.
* This sermon series “Lost & Found” were developed from a series of message by Alan Carr. Outlines and content vary from original, but thought and commentary from ACarr are appreciated.